Combining Households
by Emerian Rich

These days, people are combining households for many reasons. College graduates are moving back with their parents, parents are retiring and moving in with their adult children, and grandparents are selling their bigger homes to take up residence in mini-suites with family members. Living together makes a lot of sense when you look at it financially, especially if you live in a high-rent state like California. It can also be the answer to childcare or eldercare situations that otherwise may seem unmanageable. But for adults who have previously had their own lives and privacy, the act of sharing lives can be quite uncomfortable. There will be growing pains for sure, but to help you plan, here are some things you should consider before or during this sort of move.
Set boundaries: For adults who are used to having independence and their own lives, sharing space can be especially hard when someone is there 24-7, possibly in their space or knocking in the middle of their favorite television program. Setting boundaries may at first seem uncomfortable, since they are family, but communicating…
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